Have you ever thought about the feedback and comments that you made on your children comparing with others? Have you ever analysed the impact of your comments?
Many would say no. Few of us would defend by arguing why I should posses such forethought.
But, it very important to be careful in this regard as what you tell about your child to others, your child starts doing the same.
In case, if your child hears while you are telling others that your child is so adamant they would take it up, and try to put into practice in their own life. Your friends also, to whom you have shared about your child, would also conceive the same thought when they deal with your child, although your child reveals normal behaviour.
Your children could be accustomed with adamant nature if you frequently tag them with such behavioral patterns. So, try to share only good comments with your friends about your child whether they are present there or not.
Giving everything that they want through stubborn behavior will also affect the character of normal child in the way of getting thinks as they want.
Limited appreciation on their good behaviour would enhance their moral attitude. Because excess of appreciation would make them addict to honour. So, try to be neutral and balanced in nurturing children and allow them grow naturally.